Dragons on Christmas?

If you ask my kids what my favorite Christmas Bible passage is, they’ll probably say, “Revelation 12; you know, the one about the dragon.” However, I’ve yet to visit any Christmas service where Revelation 12 is read (besides one that I organized in Texas many years...

Taking Notes in a Mentor Session

Is it appropriate for a mentor to take notes during a mentor session, especially when mentees are sharing a lot of information?  It certainly can be.  Photo by Adolfo Félix on Unsplash Here are a few considerations for taking notes:  Note-taking can be distracting to...

Ask the Mentee Good Questions, Part 2

Ask Reframing Questions If mentees feel stuck at any time during the discussion, help them get unstuck by looking at the issue from various angles through reframing questions.  Think of reframing questions like this:  why does the Bible have four gospels that...

Ask the Mentee Good Questions, Part 1

As you listen to mentees during this phase, you will unearth many issues that seem important to their development.  But how do you follow up on these issues and encourage them to explore what will lead toward developing goals and action steps for growth?  You do this...

Listen Well by Listening Carefully

See the previous article for part 1 of Listening Well. Now, as you begin to listen well, you might want to know, “What exactly am I listening for as the mentee shares?”  The Mentee’s Own Discernment or Insights Remember that the Holy Spirit has been working in...

Listen Well by Listening Actively

In the movie Inside Out, the feelings of a little girl, Riley, are personified as different characters.  For example, there is “Joy,” “Sadness,” “Anger,” and “Disgust.”  The movie mostly takes place in her mind, as we see Joy, Sadness, Anger, and Disgust interacting...