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One important way to set a gospel-predominant tone for the mentor session is to share a devotional thought with the mentee.\u00a0 There are a few ways to do this depending on the amount of time you have to prepare beforehand as well as your level of comfort with the mentee.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Share your own devotion with him.<\/p>\n

Pick out a Bible passage that has impacted your life recently or a passage that you think would be especially encouraging to him.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Find the law and gospel in the passage.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Write out how the law in this passage convicts you (and might convict him).<\/p>\n

Write out how the gospel in this passage comforts and empowers you (and want it to comfort and empower him).\u00a0<\/p>\n

Once you are prepared, read the devotion to him or say it in your own words using your notes.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Read a devotion or article that others have written.<\/p>\n

Make sure that the devotion\/article properly applies law and gospel to convict and comfort, to guide and empower, and keeps the gospel predominant.\u00a0 This is a time to encourage the mentee, not to confuse or discourage her.<\/p>\n

Read it over at least once ahead of time so that you do not stumble over the words and distract the mentee.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Do a brief Bible study with her.<\/p>\n

As with sharing you own devotion, pick out a Bible passage that has really impacted you recently or a passage you think would be especially encouraging to her.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Find the law and gospel in the passage.<\/p>\n

Create some questions that will help you two discuss this passage together.\u00a0 Here are some examples (see \u201cthe Cycle of Spiritual Growth\u201d<\/strong><\/em> section below):\u00a0<\/p>\n

What strikes you about this passage?\u00a0<\/p>\n

How does this passage convict and\/or comfort you?<\/p>\n

How does this passage address your life callings and\/or charge you up?\u00a0<\/p>\n

How can you apply or appropriate the main points of the passage into your life this week?\u00a0<\/p>\n

NOTE:\u00a0 You must be watchful of your time if you choose to do a brief study.\u00a0 If you have only one hour available and spend 40 minutes of it on the Bible study, that will not leave much time for the other key aspects of the mentor session.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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The Cycle of Spiritual Growth<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Through the Bible, the One True God not only teaches us how to be accepted by him through Jesus Christ; he also teaches us how to grow in our relationship with him.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Repent of Your Sins<\/strong> (Convict) \u2013 As Jesus began his ministry, his very first message to people was \u201crepent and believe the good news\u201d (Mark 1:15).\u00a0 To \u201crepent\u201d quite simply means to \u201cturn around.\u201d\u00a0 Repentance is turning away from our self-righteousness and self-justification.\u00a0 It is accepting that we deserve God\u2019s eternal punishment by nature because we have offended him through the evil we have done and the good we have failed to do.\u00a0 God leads us toward repentance by convicting our hearts with his law.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Believe the Good News<\/strong> (Comfort) \u2013 Jesus not only invited people to repent; he also invited them to \u201cbelieve the good news.\u201d\u00a0 The good news is this:\u00a0 Even though we deserve God\u2019s rejection and punishment, God\u2019s Son Jesus became a human being to save us.\u00a0 He lived the perfect life we should have lived, suffered the punishment we deserve, and rose from the dead to guarantee that we are acceptable to God through him.\u00a0 Jesus invites all people to believe this good news for themselves and be comforted that God has forgiven all their guilt\u2014past, present, and future.\u00a0 You can rest fully in his grace without fear.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Carry out Your Callings<\/strong> (Calling) \u2013 Paul writes in Ephesians 4:1, \u201cI urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.\u201d\u00a0 Now that we have been accepted by God through faith in Jesus, we are called to live godly lives that reflect Jesus faithfully in all our God-given callings (as spouses, parents, children, workers, students, citizens, etc.).\u00a0 But that is difficult to do, as Jesus tells us, \u201cWhoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me\u201d (Matthew 16:24).\u00a0 Even though we are acceptable to God through Jesus and want to reflect him in our lives, our selfish natures wish to continue living in rebellion against him.\u00a0 As God\u2019s beloved children, we must learn to deny what our selfish natures crave and to carry our cross like Jesus did, that is, to humbly reflect Christ in every situation and calling even when it is difficult.\u00a0 Carrying out your callings involves carrying your cross.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Charge Up with God\u2019s Promises<\/strong> (Charge Up) \u2013 Because Jesus knows that denying ourselves and carrying our cross can be difficult, even painful, he has given us countless loving promises that empower us to rest in Christ fully and reflect him faithfully.\u00a0 Missionary Paul speaks about this in 2 Corinthians 5:14,17, \u201cFor Christ\u2019s love compels us\u2026Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

Note:<\/strong>\u00a0 When Jesus was speaking to the religious experts of his day, he reminded them that they could not truly understand the Bible unless they saw him at the center of it (John 5:39).\u00a0 He is the Blessing for all nations.\u00a0 He is the Sacrificial Lamb.\u00a0 He is the Greater King.\u00a0 So, a good question to ask yourself whenever you study the Bible is:\u00a0 Where is Christ evident in this section, even if he is not mentioned specifically?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

These four components make up the Cycle of Spiritual Growth.\u00a0 As we daily repent and receive the comfort of the good news, we carry out our callings, empowered by God\u2019s promises.\u00a0 Since we fail in some way every day, we regularly continue the cycle to repent, believe the good news, carry out our callings, and power up with God\u2019s promises.\u00a0 God strengthens our relationship with him through this process.\u00a0<\/p>\n

The most important step of preparing a devotional thought is meditating on and then applying a Bible passage or devotion to yourself first.\u00a0 That might seem backwards at first glance.\u00a0 If you are preparing a devotion for someone else, shouldn\u2019t you consider what they<\/em> need first?\u00a0 But remember:\u00a0 If we apply the law to our own lives and fill up with the gospel for ourselves first, we will have the strength, wisdom, words to fill up others.<\/p>\n

When to Share the Devotion<\/strong><\/h3>\n

It is not overly important where you schedule the devotion in the mentor session.\u00a0\u00a0 The most important thing is that you include it every time.\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you are initially building the mentor-mentee relationship, it is a good idea to open sessions with a devotion.\u00a0 However, after you get to know the mentee better, you might discover more appropriate times to share a devotion based on her personality or situation.\u00a0 For example, I mentored a brother who always sounded and looked more guilty the longer we talked.\u00a0 Finally, I started sharing a devotional thought at the end <\/em>of every session to assure him that he was still forgiven and loved by God.\u00a0 I wanted the gospel to be the final word he heard from me.\u00a0<\/p>\n

After mentoring for several years now, I often prepare a devotional thought that I plan to use at some time during the mentor session.\u00a0 The right time for sharing it often arises naturally during a session, based upon the mentee\u2019s experience or mood.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Be Afraid to Recycle<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There is no reason the devotional thought must be unique to every mentee.\u00a0 You may craft a devotion that would fit all your mentees in some way and then make specific application to them personally.\u00a0 You may choose to share a few verses from your own personal devotions that week and tailor your thoughts for each of mentee.\u00a0 Don\u2019t be afraid to recycle, and don\u2019t needlessly add work to your already busy schedule.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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